Every woman looks for her Mr Prince Charming to appear right out of a fairy-tale or a vampire series but may be she can look for one with a twist;a little bit of Mr Grey will only spice things up,but just a little bit.He’s very much a love-him-or-hate-him kind of guy and there are plenty of people in the “hate” category. However, in the “love” category, all sorts of women are entranced by his allure.
But, why? What makes otherwise independent, self-sufficient, strong women fantasize about a man that many criticize for being abusive, controlling and toxic to a relationship?
Well, I can’t speak for everyone, but I’ll do my best to lay out the reasons why I believe women tend to fall for this dominating fictional man:
Many women are used to taking care of everything all of the time. We raise children, run households and run businesses — it’s exhausting. Sometimes, we just want someone else to take over, as being in constant control is taxing.Most women would kill for a man who instead of asking, “I don’t know, where do you wanna go?” simply says, “I made reservations for us at this restaurant tonight.”
Now, take that concept and multiply it by fifty (pun intended). Christian Grey makes it so that you, the overworked, under-appreciated and worn-out wonder woman, can sit back, relax and let the man cater to you.
Many people criticize Christian Grey for being overly protective of Anastasia, to the point of possessiveness. While no woman actually wants a man to track her via GPS, — we all understand that is insane — it’s still hot to imagine a man who would care about a woman to that extent.
It’s the same concept behind bar fights. In reality, no woman wants to deal with the mess associated with a brawl; there are trips to the doctor and potential lawsuits, not to mention, we’re just not in high school anymore.
But, the idea that your man gets so bothered by another man simply looking at you that he’s driven to violence, well, it brings out an instinctual reaction that can only be summed up in onomatopoeia: rawr!
As women, we love to fix things. We can’t help it; we’re nurturers by nature. If we see a grown man who is perfect, yet somehow broken, we see an opportunity to make him whole.Dominating, fictional men often have a dark secret that threatens their relationships in some way. In this case, Christian Grey’s past demons haunt him.The only thing sexier than a billionaire tycoon with a dominating streak is a billionaire tycoon who can also be vulnerable and dependent on you for solace.
Physical superiority and emotional tenderness make the perfect combination, one that we rarely see in real life. It makes sense that our favorite dominating heroes have tragic backstories because trauma elicits sympathy from female readers and only serves to endear us further to damaged characters.
Christian Grey is essentially a sexed-up version of Edward Cullen ,you might as well end up human and indulge in an exciting odyssey !!
Mehndi Jashnani 